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My name is Joseph Kilbler, I am an actor, writer and content creator.

I think it’s important to stand up to stigma and discrimination because if it’s allowed to go unchecked, it only gets stronger and stronger. It’s like a scary shadow monster in a dark room. Give it enough space and it will consume any good thought you have, any sense of comfort and happiness, any ounce of love. But, if you find the courage to shine a light on it, to confront it, you’ll realize it’s nothing more than a silly hat on a shaky coatrack. It can no longer hurt you and before long, everyone can see that it’s not the big scary shadow monster It tried to convince you it was.

In my life, I fight stigma by showcasing myself as a multifaceted individual who transcends stereotypes. I refuse to be limited or defined by any stigma, and I do not allow its influence to hinder me. I speak out and because I have the privilege and safety to do so, I don’t back down to those who wish to throw that stigma at me.


If I had to give any advice for anyone facing stigma and discrimination within their community, it would be to remind yourself of the beauty you bring to the world. How amazing it is that you get to exist and by living a happy life, you are proving them wrong. The best revenge is a happy and fulfilled life. You aren’t alone and there is a bigger, more welcoming community out there for you.

One word that captures my true authentic self is "Happy."

When embodying the role of a Stigma Warrior, the word that describes me best is "Resilient."